It shows up again when I hear, "If there was a God, he wouldn't let so many people suffer more than others." It's an insistence that any perfect being would be fair and equitable. But all this assumes that the purpose for life is being content. I rather think life is a crucible, a test, an opportunity to grow. In order to learn math, we have to do homework and take tests. We have to be challenged to grow. It has nothing to do with equity and fairness. Math tests aren't fair, they are challenging. They are frustrating. And sometimes we fail.
What kind of a teacher would allow a class where people can fail? What kind of a teacher would cause so much discomfort and frustration among their students? Well, a good one. If we think of life, of God this way, I think it becomes clearer.
"Why does my orientation have to be gay? It's not fair!" Well, it can be challenging, but that just means the teacher feels this is the challenge I need in order to progress, in order to grow and develop. The teacher trusts me to work on this particular subject.